September 2012
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I am about to be absorbed the world of Polyamory: Married and Dating.
I shall attempt to give a less-than-biased opinion of it.
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I’m goin’ to the Poly Potluck today with my wife and most likely my best friend. I’m really quite excited - haven’t been there in 2 months now.
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So, I do have to admit - of all the breakups that I’ve had, I have to say this most recent one was far more irritating than anything. I’m a non-confrontational kind of person, I really don’t like confrontation if I can help it. I prefer to talk it out and what not (just ignore the feels running down my face on occasion, they just escape, I swear).
Now! The reason it was...
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mousiesrightwing replied to your post: Anonymous asked you: love the gif at the top of…
Aquarius over here! Boything is an Aries. I’m trying to figure out why this anon thinks this his relevant…
Hah, I’ve gotten along quite well with Aquarius’ :P no wonder.
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hydrangea-kiss:
I’m sick of hearing in songs how one person can make you whole or complete you. How once they come along everything will be dandy. I think we as a society need to stop relying upon others to make us whole and instead try to change ourselves. There isn’t one perfect person who will make all your troubles and insecurities away and if you keep thinking that your relationships won’t...
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mousiesrightwing replied to your post: So, after an unexpected (and relatively long…
OH, GODS, I AM SO EXCITE FOR THIS NEWS! I HAVE MISSED YOU! <3
I’ve missed you too! I’m just like… “ah… time to chill and relax and not be stressed anymore…”
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Anonymous asked you:
love the gif at the top of your blog! thanks for being so open about your preferences. you GiveMeHope. =) does your zodiac sign happen to be Taurus or Aquarius? what are the zodiac signs of your wife and girlfriend?
Thank you! I love that .gif too, my friend (natasi) made it for me when I made this blog since Legend of the Seeker will forever have a special place in my...
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So, after an unexpected (and relatively long hiatus) I have returned as the herald of awesome. For those of you interested in my life and reasons for lack of activity on this blog of epicness:
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Our girlfriend broke up with us (though that did lead to some interesting research that I’ll be posting about later).
My laptop was stolen.
I was in a wreck that totaled my beloved...
July 2012
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So if any of you lovely folks are looking for an apartment up here in Western Washington my wife-to-be and I are looking for roomies. We’re located between Seattle and Tacoma in Federal Way so we’re pretty close to a lot of places. Here’s the info:
430$ for rent and that includes utilities as well as wireless internet. It’s a 3 bedroom/2 bathroom on the second-floor. 1150...
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Hey guys;
If any odd messages pop up - my laptop was stolen and therefore… not me >_> just a pre-warning. I’m changing all of my passwords but just in case.
:)
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Potentially helpful things if you're being forced... →
fuckyeahsexpositivity:
greenchestnuts:
While Swankivy wrote this in response to a specific person’s situation, I feel it’s got broad applicability, so I’m reposting it so that everyone can see it. Given the frequency with which aces run into problems with therapists, psychiatrists and other medical personnel, I’ll probably be reblogging this on a semi-regular basis so it stays available to...
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pansylady23 replied to your post: you have any links to that showtime show?! I want to watch an episode, but I can’t find one!
What show?
Polyamory: Married and Dating
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sk8nska asked: you have any links to that showtime show?! I want to watch an episode, but I can't find one!
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mousiesrightwing replied to your post: mousiesrightwing reblogged your post: So I went to…
Yay! I really want to meet you guys and hang out!
It would most certainly be awesome :) we’ll be at the next potluck, at least I will - my wife usually decides the day of.
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mousiesrightwing reblogged your post: So I went to the Poly Potluck last Sunday for the…
Awwww…I feel so sad that…missed it! I didn’t even know
Next time I will make sure to give you a heads up! For serious!
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So I went to the Poly Potluck last Sunday for the first time without my wife and instead went with a friend of mine. He’s interested in polyamory and other things such as BDSM but is unsure about how to venture into it (figured the best way was with his fellow brony-in-crime-who-is-already-into-alt.-lifestyles).
Anyways, it was… different to say the least, I chilled in one of the...
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captainpyjamas replied to your post: Polyamory: Married and Dating - So, I’ve yet to…
I’ve heard good things from polyinthemedia.blogspot.com :)
Cool, I’ll have to hunt it down and give it a shot. :)
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Polyamory: Married and Dating -
So, I’ve yet to see this show mainly because we just canceled cable (saving money like a boss). This means I have to take a trip into the Wild (oh how I love you Internet) in order to find it.
But before I do that, I do have a question.
Has anybody seen it and if so how is it? Is it something worth hunting down? Is it a decent show, or is it one of those...
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My wife and I recently adopted two male kittens (appropriately named Darken and Richard) and we’re going to be moving into a three-bedroom apartment at the end of this month (technically the beginning of next - the 8th to be exact).
Our girlfriend is going to be moving across the United States to live with us at the end of August and I’m graduating in early September (the latter...
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Tips for Relationship Success
1. Always be truthful and honest with your partner.
2. Be completely reliable and dependable. Always keep your promises.
3. Don’t just bury things that are upsetting you. Communicate them with your partner.
4. Deal with problems when they first arise. If you just ignore them they are likely to get worse.
5. When working on problems always go after a win-win solution. If one...
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The current state of my still-evolving thoughts on...
toomanyfeelings:
“Nothing below the belt”, formally a phrase with crystal clear meaning to my younger self, has become vaguest boundary of all time, because it presumes that sex is a linear downward progression of groping. Can I tie him to the bed as long as I keep his pants on? Can I SEE her naked? What?
Most people use “experience” to mean either number of partners or “positions” tried. I...
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Quick Note - I will be tagging anything that concerns sexual “things” [including but not limited to: positions, general intercourse, my personal life should sexyteims be mentioned, and any other references to things revolving around and/or related to sex] with “warning: sex related issues.”
That way if anyone doesn’t want to read such things (I know many of you...
I am so very sorry for that random spam of ASoIaF/Game of Thrones love… I was smart and forgot to log into my personal blog.
You saw nothing.
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has-a-lot-to-offer-anatomically asked you:
Do you have any tips on how to come out to your parents? I have a boyfriend and girlfriend in Australia while I’m here in the states. We’ve been together for a few months now and while I hate keeping them a secret, wanting to shout it out from the rooftops, I don’t want to go too far and have my parents bar any further communication...
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Most people who complain about "why do we all need...
telegantmess:
have likely never felt the flood of relief that there is a WORD FOR WHAT YOU ARE after spending years wondering if you were broken, what was wrong with you, feeling ridiculously isolated and having other people complain about things you can’t change about yourself. If there’s a word for it, that makes it a real thing.
Knowing that I am real, that I am not alone, has done so much...
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I. Communication
So I’ve been working on some posts, they’re hiding in my “maybe I should have my wife look at these and make sure they’re grammatically correct - ah never mind, just gonna post it in all of its horrid glory” folder. Anyways - some musings are going to be posted over the next few weeks, and many of them will probably involve my personal experiences simply because...
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This doesn’t have much to do with polyamory except for the end, but my feels!
Anonymous asked you:
You’re from Seattle right? What’s your opinion on Dan Savage?
Gah, Dan Savage… once upon a time I had some serious respect for the man. I can pinpoint the exact point in time, the exact response that made me loose all respect for him.
Let me give a little bit of back...
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Polyactivism
heartconnection:
Betsy is a 54-year-old school teacher whose two grown daughters were scandalized by their mother’s polyamorous lifestyle. They said they were embarrassed to bring their grandchildren to her home because she lived openly with her two partners, a man and a woman. She explained to them in a letter:
‘I am a veteran of more than forty years of activism in the women’s movement....
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So, a few days ago I had lunch with my parents - mind you this was only a few days after I had told them I was engaged (my wife and I are married in everything but the ceremony and a piece of paper… oh and that pesky… law thing).
Somehow the topic of polyamory got brought up and I’m very, very certain that they’re not ready for that particular fact of my life. It’s...
June 2012
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We’re in the process of adopting two twin kittens, which we’ve named Richard (for his constant need to leap) and Darken (for his constant plotting then attacking). Hopefully they get along well with Jersey (our girlfriend’s evil, fluffy bunny).
Though I’m kind of rooting for a poly animal family…
Just sayin’…
It would be interesting.
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“Queerness, to me, is about far more than homosexual attraction. It’s about a...”
– What Queerness Means To Me « Tranarchism (via docasaur)
(via strugglingtobeheard)
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Watchdrunkonstevphen:
This man is beyond words.
In which water is in a “frooky molecular threeway.” I love this man and his consuming of “homosnacktuals.”
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mousiesrightwing reblogged your post:
Dude, even finding one person to just date you is difficult! Homosexual people are afraid you’re gonna leave them
Homg, yes. Yes they are… gah… *flails*
Haha, you should have seen what it was like with my wife and I. Dating didn’t happen for a year… a year of being attracted to each other and madly in love and all this other stuff. A...
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natasi asked you:
[on your post] Sexuality is very complicated (imo) for example: I identify as a lesbian but I have been known to be sexually attracted to men (I blame hormones but it’s probably more complicated then that) however, I identify as a lesbian because men don’t interest me in a romantic/emotional relationship (excluding friendship)
Sexuality is incredibly complicated...
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notsimplyagirl asked you:
From what I’ve gathered from the conferences I’ve gone to and the friends I’ve talked to it’s because of fear of being left for another person simply because of gender. While not a great reason to be bi-phobic or denying the existance of bisexuality it’s the one I’ve heard the most and oddly understand the most. I think it’s...
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natasi answered your question: This post has nothing to do with polyamory but it…
*hugs*
I vote a new policy/rule/law be made where all things can be solved with hugs. >_>
*hugs*
Though this could just be my need to hug people.
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mousiesrightwing:
polyamorouslyinlove:
This post has nothing to do with polyamory but it does have to do with bisexuality and sexuality.
So, as many of you may have realized - I am exceedingly passionate about certain topics. Sexuality is one of them and it’s not just a topic I vent about on the Internet, it’s a topic I discuss in real life as well. We can blame that on being the...
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reyreypelcastre asked you:
What does “find a unicorn” mean?
A unicorn is a mythical being that radiates rainbows and shits glitter. They run around in packs and to capture one is incredibly difficult but also an honor that involves a title. It requires talent, awesome-smex-appeal and a superhero costume of your choosing.
I jest… I jest. But no, really - I can’t talk...
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Anonymous asked you:
I’m asexual and in a poly relationship too, I just wanted to say thanks.
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This post has nothing to do with polyamory but it does have to do with bisexuality and sexuality.
So, as many of you may have realized - I am exceedingly passionate about certain topics. Sexuality is one of them and it’s not just a topic I vent about on the Internet, it’s a topic I discuss in real life as well. We can blame that on being the once-upon-a-time defacto Madame President...
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Anonymous asked:
I don’t get how you can be asexual and in a polyamorous relationship. It just doesn’t seem like it works.
It works because there’s different types and levels of attractions. The attraction I feel for my girlfriend is romantic (and sensual), the attraction I feel towards my wife… well there’s a lot of different types - but I’ll go into that...
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“Imagine you’re at a party. A guy offers you a drink. You say no. He says “Come...”
– The art of “no,” continued: Saying no when you’ve already said yes. « CaptainAwkward.com
I love this post SO MUCH.
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Predators use the social contract and our own good hearts and fear of being rude against us. !!!This. This is why I don’t trip off of making a...
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Anonymous asked you:
I know it isn’t released yet, but -from the ads- how do you feel about the way Savages looks to be handling the poly relationship of the main characters? It’s probably too early to tell, but I was just impressed that there seems to be a healthy triad in a Hollywood movie.
From what I’ve seen thus far of the trailers I’m actually kind of excited to...
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Dealing with the Green-Eyed Monster; or, U JELLY?
youngfabandpoly:
Jealousy isn’t exclusive to any group; no one has a monopoly on it, and most people don’t just magically stop feeling it once they decide to be poly. On the whole, though, it seems as though polyamorous relationships tend to deal with it rather differently than the majority of monogamous relationships, if only because when you’re poly, it’s a lot harder to fall into the customs...
